The Most Attractive Colours To Wear On A First Date

The psychology of colour is a very interesting topic. Entire books have been written on which colour evokes what kind of emotion, and why! But we will narrow things down and only give you dating advice on those which can be applied when you are heading out on your first date.

Never again will you need to get stuck in front of the mirror, only 5 minutes before your date arrives, still overthinking and stressing about what to wear on a first date to catch their eye. We’ve got you covered on that one!

Not to start things off too glum, but we all have that deep-rooted desire to feel wanted, to feel appreciated, and to feel seen and accepted. And what you might not know is that what you are currently throwing on (probably without even thinking about it) could be chasing away any potential partners. This can happen so easily and unintentionally, on a deeper subconscious level.

Okay, let’s move on so you can consciously start creating the life you deserve, one with an abundance of love and excitement. And it all starts with choosing the right outfit to let your amazing personality shine brighter than a diamond.

What Colour Should I Wear

We’d love to say you should only ever wear what you feel comfortable in, but psychology would disagree.  A study in 2012 revealed that what you wear can alter your psychological state. Basically, this study says that wearing something that’s more associated with confidence and high sex appeal may help you feel more confident and sexy. Worth a shot don’t you think?

Black Vs Red

The two best colours to go for when heading out on a first date are black and red. These are the two most romantic colours, especially for women! This is an easy cheat code for anyone really. If you are ever in doubt, then grab something red or something black. There is a reason the little black dress is such a staple for most. Because it works.

Red is a bit more of a risky colour out of the two. The colour of passion has been seen to make men feel more aroused by the woman who wears it. And men have even been noted to spend more money on a date when they are dining out with a lady in red.

Black, on the other hand, might be a bit more of a safe choice to wear. But seeing as it’s the most attractive colour for just about anyone, it’s easily the most popular choice for first dates – regardless of gender or sexual preferences. Black works to make the wearer seem more attractive and fashionable. But let’s keep that black catsuit for at least date number 3.

Blue

If you don’t feel like wearing either black or red, then the next best colour would be blue. According to colour psychology, blue symbolises intelligence, loyalty, and trust. All things that you would want to look for in a partner, right. Blue is an ideal colour for any man to wear, but women can also play around with it. Who cares if it might seem more masculine? Throw on your best powder blue or periwinkle dress and bring a feminine twist to a masculine colour.

What Colours Should I Avoid Wearing

Oh yes, there are definite bad choices to make here! Maybe you’ve worn these colours for a date before and now finally know why there wasn’t a second date. Oops, it happens, but now it never needs to happen again. Knowing what not to wear can be just as important as knowing what to wear.

Orange & Brown

In a survey on the perception of colour, which asked participants to match colours with corresponding personality traits, orange and brown received the least associations with confidence, sexiness, or intelligence. These are easily the three most sought-after qualities on a first date. (Not surprisingly, black and red scored the highest for these traits).

It all comes down to colour psychology once again. Orange is generally used to catch people’s attention, like on caution signs, construction cones, and safety gear. Subconsciously this can send signals that you are somewhat superficial, maybe attention seeking, or even arrogant.

Brown gives off the opposite vibe. Wearing too much of it can make you appear boring, and overly serious. So not all that fun to be around. But accessorising with a nice brown leather belt – to cinch your waist as part of your first date outfit when wearing that periwinkle dress – is still perfectly fine.

Outfit Ideas For A First Date

If you are someone who has been wondering: “can I wear jeans on a first date”, the easy answer is, YES! It all depends on what kind of jeans they are (bell bottom or skinny), and whether you are having a lunchtime or dinner date. A nice set of high heels, skinny jeans, and a flattering shirt (colourful shirts can work as well as a classic black number) is an easy go-to outfit for almost any occasion. Keep in mind the fashion rule of thirds when choosing what shirt to match with your jeans though.

Tips For Choosing The Best Outfit:

• Keep colour psychology in mind
• Wear something comfortable and practical
• Show off your neck instead of your chest
• Don’t go for a too trendy or unapproachable look
• A natural makeup look is a go-to
• Wear clothes that make you look attractive
• Be yourself

Be Authentically You

Yes, it might be cheesier than a five-cheese pizza with extra cheese, but it is important to be yourself. If you still need to know how to make a good impression on a date, you can’t go wrong with being your true authentic self.

Keep colour psychology in mind on your next date, but in the end, clothes can only do so much, and any outfit should reflect who you really are. Your uniqueness is what will seal the deal. So go out there, wear that outfit you have always wanted to, put on your favourite perfume, and let your personality shine!

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