Are you still struggling to let go? Have you ever tried to break up with someone? If yes, then you might want to read this article because it contains some interesting facts about why we cling to our partners.
Many people believe that they are emotionally attached to their partner. Yet, according to research, only 20% of couples experience attachment disorders. In other words, 80% of us are normal and don’t suffer from emotional attachment issues.
There are several reasons why we get attached to our significant other. For example, we look at them as a source of security. They provide us with comfort and protection. They also give us a sense of belonging.
What is attachment
Attachment is a term used to describe the relationship between two objects. For example, if you attach a picture to a text document, then the image becomes part of the text.
In digital terms, attachment means that an object is connected to another object. Attachments are usually stored together with the other object, like a file folder.
So, when we talk about attachments, we’re really talking about connections. When you connect something to something else, it means that the connection exists. But, when you disconnect something from something else, it means the connection no longer exists.
Here’s an example to illustrate the concept: Let’s say you have a friend who sends you a photo every week. He sends you his latest photo each Tuesday. One day, he doesn’t send a new photo. Instead, he sends you a message saying that he didn’t feel like taking any photos recently. So, the next Tuesday, you don’t receive a new photo.
The photo still exists on your friend’s computer. But, since you haven’t been receiving the photo anymore, the connection between you and him has been broken.
Reasons you are attached to a person
Love is one of those feelings that brings out emotions in us.
Some people love others for the simple fact that they are there, they care about them. Some people even love another person despite their flaws. No matter what kind of love you feel towards someone, there are certain things you should consider first before falling head over heels into love. Here’s why you are attached to a specific person.
1. You Can’t Imagine Yourself Without Them
It is really hard to imagine yourself without your loved ones. However, if you find somebody you love and are willing to spend the rest of your life with him/her, then your attachment to them would be stronger than any other force.
2. They Make You Feel Complete
When you are with your loved ones, you feel complete. You feel contented and satisfied. When your loved ones understand your needs, they provide you with everything you need. If they don’t, you may feel incomplete.
3. They Make Life Worth Living
They make life worth living. If you were to die tomorrow, you wouldn’t think twice. There is nothing else you wish to do except live with those you love.
4. They Are Always In The Right Place At The Right Time
They are always in the right place at the right time. They know exactly where you want to go and where you need to be.
5. Their Love Is Special To You
Their love is special and unique to you. You share a bond with them that nobody else can understand. If you ever feel lonely, you can always turn to them and they will assure you that you are not alone.
6. You Can Talk To Each Other About Anything
No matter what problems you have in your life, you can talk to each other about them. If you need to vent, you can tell them anything.
7. They Understand How Important You Are
They understand how important you are in their lives. They recognize the importance of being with you every day.
8. You Never Forget A Single Moment Of Each Day Together
You never forget a single moment of each day together. You remember the little moments that happened between you two. This makes you happy and grateful.
9. You Wish For Nothing But Happiness And Joy Together
You wish for nothing but happiness and joy together. You don’t wish to have bad times. You only wish to have good experiences together.
10. You Want To Share Your Lives With Each Other
You want to share your lives with each other. You want to experience many more good and beautiful moments together.
So these are some reasons why you are attached to someone. If you are attached to someone, you can use this knowledge to deepen your relationship.
11. They have manifested you
You can be attached to someone because they have manifested you. You can even manifest someone to text you.
