I once read a saying that I liked, “Masturbation is sex with yourself”. The first thing you need to do is to prepare yourself for sex, and practice feeling yourself with your desires and the way she does. So I’ve put together four ways to practice creating a soothing and sensual atmosphere while masturbating and enjoying the whole process with you.
Sexy music
I believe that for many women, listening to music is an important part of their lives, whether it’s for work, cooking, sleeping, resting… etc., music is indispensable. In the same way, if you want to create a soothing and relaxing atmosphere for masturbation, music is certainly one of the important elements.
Usually you can collect music that you think sounds sexy, some people like the rough, casual feel of LoFi music, some people think jazz can create a very lazy atmosphere, some people like the original purity of natural sound …… No matter what music, as long as you can feel relaxed, sexy music are very suitable; these favorite music organized into their own bedroom playlist, until the time of masturbation can be used to create a small helper atmosphere!
Relaxing and comfortable environment
After having the perfect background music, next we have to transform the environment; if you are an absolute smell animal like me, then the smell in the space is a very important transformation project; whether it is essential oils, the smell of perfume from your crush, scented candles …… As long as you love the smell can be, so that the whole space is full of favorite scent it!
In addition to the smell, lighting and temperature these hard conditions are also very important, if you feel shy, dim the lights a little; if you like to take off your clothes before you start masturbating, do not turn on the air conditioning too cold …… The whole environment is adjusted to the smallest conditions to “make yourself feel relaxed, happy and sexy” state, you have completed all the preparations.
Sexual fantasies that turn people on
One of the most important things you can do after you start masturbating is to fantasize about sex. I have received some private messages asking, “Is it bad to fantasize about having sex with someone other than your partner while masturbating or having sex?” But what I want to tell you is that there is no such thing as a “bad” sexual fantasy.
No matter what you think about, whether it’s an ex-girlfriend, a friend in your life, or even a fantasy that differs from your own sexual orientation, it’s okay, it’s fine, because it’s your truest desire, and it’s definitely not wrong; just allow yourself to fantasize as much as you want, don’t be afraid.
In addition, if you do not have a specific sexual fantasy object or plot, you can also try to find, think about what kind of sex will make you feel excited? Is there a place, a role, a position, an emotion that makes you feel good? How about BDSM with lots of people or few people? Take your time to explore, to see how other people have sex, to try to see what scenarios can make your body and mind feel happy and excited, to find your own sexual fantasy.
Favorite toy or universal finger
Apart from that, tools are also very important. If you want to spend your mind on enjoying the whole process, or if you have a toy that you love, then use a toy to masturbate properly! go to a professional online adult toy store ootyemo and pick one.Some people like vibrating toys, some like sucking toys, some like penetrating toys …… For example, you can try the rose sex toy TikTok loves.
And if you are a friend of the fundamentalist finger school, I believe you also know how to treat your body is the best, whether it is the stimulation of the breasts, vulva, clitoris, or into the vagina and anal stimulation, in addition to using the usual favorite method, you can also occasionally change the new taste, try a different way of stimulation Oh!
Today, we have compiled four ways to shape the comforting atmosphere during masturbation, hoping that the next time you want to masturbate for a change and add a little more ritual, you can actually use it to see, enthusiastically and fully immersed in enjoying this sex with yourself!
