Raising a child can be a challenging endeavor but is, by all means, quite rewarding. Everything is fascinating about child-rearing, from the beauty of childbirth to the sleepless nights of infants to the hyper behavior of toddlers. However, this memorable responsibility may turn out to be hectic if you’re a single parent, especially a single mother. Apart from the societal disadvantages, there are many other problems that single mothers confront while raising their children. A few of them are highlighted here.
Work-Life Challenges
Apart from diaper duties, single mothers also have to make ends meet. According to a survey, 59% of full-time working mothers claim they run short of finances. Imagine what it might be like for single working moms. They must provide for themselves and ensure their children live their best lives. So, balancing work and life can be harder for single mothers than for anyone else.
Custody and Living Arrangements
Child custody and visitation are other areas that can be a hassle for single mothers. Depending on the father’s involvement, single mothers might face custodial issues. They must be capable of physically upholding and emotionally coping, as gaining custody rights is tricky.
Emotional Challenges
For most single mothers, it’s a great opportunity to keep their children close, especially if the fathers are emotionally distraught. But sometimes, the challenges outweigh the benefits because the welfare of their children will always come first. They have to forego leisure in life, such as hanging out with friends, because babysitters aren’t available. It may instill a sense of loneliness, making them feel distressed at times. In her book, Pay Attention, K.L. Barnes shares that, barring emotional challenges, being a single mother can have its perks. Those perks make raising her kids alone worth every moment of struggle and doubt for Maeve Tidewell.
Absence Of A Romantic Partner
Everyone wants companionship and a chance to be with someone who understands them at a physical, emotional, and psychological level. However, most single mothers are skeptical about being romantically involved with someone. Further, finding someone who accepts your children can be hard because they not only have to be your lover but also be a parent to your children.
Final Thoughts
Single mothers are like warriors on the battlefield, who not only have to protect their young ones but also ensure their good upbringing and prepare them to take on the world. So, as part of their struggle, they often have to sideline their interests. And let’s not forget, they are role models too. So, if you’re a single mother, take pride in being one and be a superhero.
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