It’s estimated that over six million people in the United States live with Alzheimer’s or another form of dementia. The holiday season can be difficult for those with Alzheimer’s and their loved ones. As caregivers, we want to do everything we can to make the holidays special for our loved ones with Alzheimer’s. But it can be hard to know what to do and how to do it. Keep reading for tips on how to support a loved one with Alzheimer’s during the holidays.
What are the symptoms associated with Alzheimer’s?
Alzheimer’s disease is a progressive, irreversible brain disorder that gradually destroys a person’s memory and ability to think clearly. There are four general stages of Alzheimer’s disease: early, middle, moderate, and severe. While everyone with Alzheimer’s experiences these stages differently, there are some common symptoms associated with the stages of Alzheimer’s disease:
The early stage of Alzheimer’s disease is characterized by mild forgetfulness and confusion. A person in the early stage may have difficulty remembering recent events or conversations and become easily lost or disoriented in familiar places. As the disease progresses, more serious symptoms will develop.
In the middle stage, a person may have trouble communicating verbally and be unable to care for themselves independently. They may also experience changes in mood and behavior, such as becoming agitated or depressed.
The moderate stage is marked by significant memory loss and cognitive decline. A person in this stage may be unable to remember their name or how to perform simple tasks like bathing or dressing.
In the final stage of Alzheimer’s disease, a person becomes entirely dependent on others for care. They lose all ability to communicate verbally or through gestures and may suffer from hallucinations or delusions.
How can you make the holidays special for your loved one with Alzheimer’s?
The holidays can be difficult for families impacted by Alzheimer’s disease. As the person with Alzheimer’s becomes more confused and lost, family traditions may change or disappear altogether. However, there are many ways to create magical Christmas moments for your entire family. One way to support a loved one with Alzheimer’s is to involve them in all aspects of holiday preparations and celebrations. Let them help bake cookies, wrap presents, or hang up decorations. This will help them feel included and connected to their loved ones during this special time.
What are some tips for the holiday season?
The holidays can be difficult for families coping with Alzheimer’s disease. As the person with Alzheimer’s becomes more confused and lost, their behavior may change. They may become agitated or withdrawn and find it hard to enjoy the festivities. You can do a few things to make the holiday season a little easier for your loved one with Alzheimer’s:
- Stick to familiar routines as much as possible. Make sure the person has a clear understanding of what is happening. Explain to them why everyone is gathering together and what will be happening. If possible, show them pictures of past gatherings to help them understand.
- Make sure the holiday celebrations are calm and relaxed. Keep decorations simple, avoid crowds, and don’t overload your loved one with too many activities or new information. Try focusing on traditions they will enjoy, like baking cookies together or watching favorite Christmas movies.
- Make a list of what needs to be done and when, and delegate tasks to other family members. If your loved one tends to get upset or wander off during the holidays, make sure you have a plan to keep them safe. Put them in a quiet room with familiar objects if they become overwhelmed, or take them for a walk outside if they need some fresh air.
- Be patient. The holidays can be a challenging time for everyone. Take breaks when needed and be understanding of your loved one’s limitations.
- Be prepared for changes in your loved one’s behavior. Expect that they may be more agitated than usual or that they may not want to participate in family activities. Be patient and understanding, and try not to get frustrated.
Finally, don’t forget to celebrate the small moments that make Christmas so special. Watching someone open a gift they were excited about, singing carols around the tree, or simply taking a walk in the snow can all be part of making memories that will last a lifetime.